Cruising: Live Group Chats on WhatsApp
For Gay & Bi Men. Post and receive messages (in real time) from a list of city chat groups when cruising.
Our List of Chat Groups
Group Chats by City
Popular Group Chats
Centurian Sauna (Auckland)
FWB (friends with benefits)
Cum Dump
M2M Massage
How to join a chat group
Join a group by sending a WhatsApp message to 021 460 096 with the name of the group/s you want to join (listed above). The group admin will be in touch to approve you. Your message acknowledges you have read the rules below! So please read them.
Remember to introduce yourself and mention what you're looking for. Posts with pic/s get a much bigger response! You can opt to use disappearing photos and the username feature, instructions below.
Rules
Members and member invites strictly 18+
Keep it legal. No depictions of illicit drug use, underage people or bestiality.
All groups are for gay and bi men who identify and present as men.
No hate speech, racism, sexism, ageism, personal attacks, or bullying. Respect other group members and admins.
Don’t message other members directly without their permission.
No Promotions, Spam, or Bots.
No sharing contacts, images or content from groups.
Relevance - keep it on-topic. Switch to a private conversation for off-topic conversations
No money talk. No asking for money, lending money, or borrowing money.
These groups are designed for users in New Zealand only.
This is not the place for political or religious conversations.
Gay4play and group admin/s have the right to remove anyone without question.
These rules are in addition to WhatsApp's Messaging Guidelines.
Keeping it Discreet
Username feature
WhatsApp's username feature allows you to chat and connect with others using a unique handle (such as @Name123) instead of sharing your personal phone number.
How to Reserve or Create Your Username
Open WhatsApp on your primary mobile device.
Go to Settings (or tap the area around your profile photo).
Select Account, then tap Username.
Choose a unique handle or select Use Instagram username or Use Facebook username if linked.
Tap Save to lock it in.
Disappearing photos
How to Send a View Once Photo
Open a chat with a contact or group.
Select or take a photo using the camera or attachment/plus icon.
Tap the "1" icon next to the caption box so it turns highlighted or blue.
Hit send, and all recipients will only be able to open and view the image once before it vanishes permanently.
Invite a friend
So you want to let one of your hot friends or fuck-buddies know about these WhatsApp Groups?
Just forward them this page link: Cruising Live Chat
Any Suggestions? Hit us up!
SessioNz is cumming soon!
Discreet, adults only, guest-listed events for Gay and Bi Men.
Be the first to know when by joining our Events Newsletter below ⬇️
Join our events newsletter
Eager to be part of something exciting? Sign up for our Event Notifications to keep up with New Zealand's lively gay / bi adult events. We promise no fluff, just the info you need. Join us today and see what adventures await!
Have we missed anything?
If you know an event, community group, organisation, or even just a tip, let us know! We're on the lookout for gay and gay-friendly events across New Zealand!
Merch with a Splash of Rainbow
Gear for the gym, for your pup, and more. Click here to get yours!
